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When Do You Get an Eternity Ring and Which One Is Right?

When to buy an eternity ring

People often ask us, “When do you get an eternity ring?” The answer is far less prescriptive than you might expect. 

An engagement ring has the proposal, and a wedding ring has the ceremony, but an eternity ring tends to arrive at a moment chosen by the people involved. For some, that is a significant wedding anniversary. For others, it marks the arrival of a child, a vow renewal, an important birthday or simply a point in life that feels worthy of something permanent. 

Perhaps that is why eternity rings are so personal. There is tradition behind them, of course, but there is also far more freedom. 

If you are thinking about one, the occasion is only the beginning. The stones, setting, metal and whether you choose a half or full eternity ring will all affect how it looks and, importantly, how it sits alongside the jewellery you already wear. 

When Do You Get an Eternity Ring for an Anniversary?

A wedding anniversary remains one of the most popular occasions for an eternity ring, although there is no rule that says you should wait for a particular year. 

Ten years is often significant, as is twenty-five, but we also meet couples who choose an anniversary that has personal meaning to them. The value lies in the reason behind it, rather than following a date simply because convention says you should. 

Diamond eternity rings are particularly suited to this kind of gift because they sit so naturally beside an engagement ring and wedding ring. 

Our V Claw Brilliant Cut Diamond 5 Stone Eternity Ring is a good example. Five brilliant cut diamonds create a defined line across the finger, while the platinum setting keeps the overall appearance crisp and understated. 

It is an eternity ring with presence, but one that still allows the engagement ring beside it to remain part of the story. 

Take a closer look at the V Claw Brilliant Cut Diamond 5 Stone Eternity Ring 

Can You Give an Eternity Ring After Having a Baby?

You certainly can, and the arrival of a child has long been one of the occasions associated with eternity rings. 

There is something fitting about choosing a ring at a point when family life has changed so completely. However, there is also a practical consideration that is worth knowing before you buy. 

Finger size can fluctuate during pregnancy and for some time afterwards. For that reason, it can be sensible to allow things to settle before committing to the final size, particularly if you are considering a full eternity ring. 

A half eternity ring may offer greater flexibility, depending on the design, because there is more plain metal at the back of the band. 

The Platinum Channel Set Diamond Half Eternity Ring places the diamonds neatly between two edges of platinum. It has a clean profile and works particularly well for someone who wants a line of diamonds without stones continuing around the entire finger. 

See the Platinum Channel Set Diamond Half Eternity Ring in more detail 

Is an Eternity Ring Suitable for a Vow Renewal?

A vow renewal gives an eternity ring a very natural place. 

You are not recreating your wedding day. You are returning to the promises with the benefit of everything that has happened since, which can make the jewellery chosen for the occasion feel particularly considered. 

This is also an opportunity to look carefully at the rings already on the hand. 

If the wedding ring and engagement ring are yellow gold, continuing that metal through the eternity ring can bring the three pieces together beautifully. Alternatively, someone who already mixes metals may prefer contrast. 

Our 18ct Yellow Gold Diamond Eternity Ring is an option for anyone drawn to the warmth of yellow gold. The combination of diamonds and gold creates a softer effect than platinum, while still giving the ring enough definition to sit comfortably beside an existing wedding band. 

Can You Buy an Eternity Ring for Yourself?

Absolutely, and we see no reason why a partner should only ever choose an eternity ring. At the end of the day, if you wish it to be a solo or joint purchase, then we are here to support that.  

Fine jewellery often marks the moments we want to remember. A significant birthday, a personal achievement or simply reaching a point where you want to buy something exceptional for yourself can be reason enough. 

Choosing your own ring also gives you the freedom to move beyond diamonds if colour is what you naturally gravitate towards. 

The Sapphire and Diamond 7 Stone Eternity Ring alternates sapphires and diamonds across the finger, creating a quite different effect from an all-diamond design. 

Blue brings depth, while the diamonds add brightness between each stone. If sapphire already appears elsewhere in your jewellery, or is simply a colour you have always loved, there is no reason to save it for another occasion. 

Explore the Sapphire and Diamond 7 Stone Eternity Ring 

What Is the Difference Between a Half and Full Eternity Ring?

The distinction is straightforward, but it makes a considerable difference when the ring is worn. 

A half eternity ring has gemstones set across part of the band, usually the section visible from the top of the hand. A full eternity ring continues the gemstones around the entire circumference. 

From above, both can create an uninterrupted impression of diamonds or coloured stones. The practical differences become clearer once you consider comfort, sizing, and everyday wear. 

A full eternity ring gives you stones from every angle, but resizing can be more complicated because there is little or no plain metal available to alter. 

A half eternity ring can often offer more scope for adjustment, although this always depends on the construction of the individual piece. 

If you are still weighing up the two, our guide to what an eternity ring is explains the differences in more detail. 

How Should an Eternity Ring Sit with Your Other Rings?

There is no compulsory order for wearing an eternity ring, although many people place the wedding ring first, followed by the engagement ring and then the eternity ring. 

Others prefer the eternity ring between the two, while some wear it on the opposite hand entirely. 

We are far more interested in how the rings sit together than in following a particular order. 

Look at the width of each band and the height of the settings. Check whether the edges touch comfortably and whether the eternity ring sits flush or leaves a gap beside the engagement ring. 

The metal deserves the same attention. Platinum alongside platinum can create a seamless look, while 18ct yellow gold adds warmth. Neither approach is automatically right. It depends on the rings already there. 

This is precisely why trying the combination on matters.

Which Eternity Ring Is Right for You?

Before choosing, start with the jewellery that will sit beside it. 

If you already have an engagement ring and wedding ring, bring them with you. The proportions that seem right in isolation can look vastly different when three bands share the same hand. 

Then consider the stones. A row of brilliant cut diamonds will create a different effect from sapphires and diamonds, just as a channel setting feels quite different from individual claws. 

Finally, think about how you live with your jewellery. An eternity ring may mark an important occasion, but it is likely to be worn far beyond that day. 

At Hancocks Jewellers, we have been helping people choose fine jewellery in Manchester since 1860. We can show you different eternity rings alongside your existing pieces and talk through the details that are difficult to judge from a photograph alone. 

You are very welcome to visit us at 29 King Street in Manchester city centre and try them on. 

The occasion may give you the reason to choose an eternity ring. The right ring should still feel completely your own.